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Visiting or living in Korea? Learn the must-know etiquette rules—like using two hands and respecting elders—so you don’t accidentally offend your Korean friends!
So You’re in Korea… And You Wanna Be a Respectful Bestie?
Okay, here’s the tea 🍵
Korea is super friendly and welcoming, but it also has a deep-rooted culture of manners and respect—especially when it comes to age, hierarchy, and how you speak or act.
So let’s avoid the awkward “umm… why are they giving me that look?” moments with this starter pack of Korean etiquette do’s and don’ts.
🙌 1. Always Use Two Hands (특히 술 받을 때!)
Whether you're giving or receiving something (like money, a gift, or even a shot of soju), use two hands.
At the very least, hold your arm with your opposite hand to show respect.
Why?
In Korea, especially when someone’s older or higher in position, two hands = manners.
🍻 2. Don’t Drink Facing Directly Toward Elders
Here’s a scene you’ll see everywhere:
Someone pours you a drink, and you turn your head to the side while sipping. Why?
It’s called 돌려 마시기.
You slightly bow your head and turn away to drink when with elders or higher-ups.
It’s like saying, “I respect you, but I still wanna drink!” 😆
🧓 3. Age Really Matters (진짜 중요해요)
The first question Koreans often ask is:
“몇 살이에요?” (How old are you?)
Why? Because in Korean culture, age = social role.
It affects how you talk (존댓말 vs 반말), who pays, and who calls who first.
💡 Tip: Don’t get offended if someone asks your age quickly. It’s not rude—it’s how they figure out how to connect with you properly!
🥢 4. Don’t Stick Your Chopsticks in Rice
Like… ever.
This resembles a Korean funeral ritual and can seriously kill the mood.
Instead, place your chopsticks neatly on the side of your bowl or use a chopstick rest.
🚪 5. Shoes Off, Always
If you’re going into a Korean home (or even some cafes, 한옥 stays, or traditional restaurants), take your shoes off at the door.
Leaving them on is a major no-no.
Imagine walking into someone’s house with muddy sneakers—yep, that’s the vibe.
🗣 Bonus: Speak Softly in Public
In subways, buses, or cafes, Koreans usually keep their voices low.
Being too loud might draw some side-eyes… or subtle “shhh” energy 👀
So maybe save that juicy group gossip for later.
Final Thoughts: Respect is the Vibe
Korean etiquette isn’t about being formal or stiff—it’s about showing respect, empathy, and care for others.
Once you get the hang of it, it honestly feels super natural.
So go ahead, bow slightly when you say hi, pour that soju with two hands, and vibe like a local! 🇰🇷💖
👇 Have you ever had a funny (or awkward) etiquette moment in Korea? Share your story in the comments!
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